“I write entirely to find out what I’m thinking, what I’m looking at, what I see and what it means. What I want and what I fear.”
—Joan Didion
“I feel cluttered when there is no time to analyze experience. That is the silt — unexplored experience that literally chokes the mind.”
—May Sarton
“I write only because there is a voice within me that will not be still.”
—Sylvia Plath
Please enjoy these links to some published writing by me!
• How I Found Solace In Judy Garland’s Struggles In Hollywood
• What ‘The Mary Tyler Moore Show’ Taught Me About Growing Up — And Being Single
• A Little Dirty Laundry: The Forgotten Legacy of Grace Metalious and PEYTON PLACE
• Friends With the Monster: The Fate of Truman Capote’s ANSWERED PRAYERS
• The Age of Un-Innocence: Feminine Loneliness in BRIDGET JONES’S DIARY and SEX AND THE CITY
• Ursula Nordstrom and the Queer Revolution of the 20th Century Children’s Book
• The Loneliest Doll: What Ever Happened to Dare Wright?
• It’s My Mess: How I’ve Scrapbooked My Way Through Mental Illness
(and more)
• How Female Friendship Films Help Me Embrace My Queerness
• Why ‘Rhoda’ is Still Worth Revisiting Five Decades Later
• How ‘My Girl’ Helped Me Process My Own Childhood Grief
• Why Did It Take ‘Grey’s Anatomy’ 15 Seasons to Add Gay Male Characters?
• How ‘Ally McBeal’ Influenced the Modern Cringe Comedy
• Why ‘The Family Stone’ is My Favorite Queer Holiday Film
(and more)
• Fefe Dobson is Ready to Rock Again
• Liz Phair Knew Pop Was a Cultural Construct Before You Did
• Alias’ Carl Lumbly and Michael Vartan On Its Legacy and Streaming Rebirth
• How Strong, Angry Women in Pop Culture Guided Me Through the COVID-19 Pandemic
• Alessia Cara’s ‘In the Meantime’ is a Spellbinding and Necessary Body of Work
(and more)
• On Race Relations and Queerness in Todd Haynes’ Far From Heaven (2002)
• Toxic Disney Superstardom and ‘The Lizzie McGuire Movie’
(and more)
• 6 Tips for Surviving Anxiety as an Introvert
• Holy Hell! The Spirit Room Turns 20
• Revisit: Amy Grant: Heart in Motion
• Criminally Underrated: G.I. Jane
(and more)
“Because if I tell the story, I control the version. Because if I tell the story, I can make you laugh, and I would rather have you laugh at me than feel sorry for me. Because if I tell the story, it doesn’t hurt as much. Because if I tell the story, I can get on with it.”
—Nora Ephron
“We write for the same reason that we walk, talk, climb mountains or swim the oceans — because we can. We have some impulse within us that makes us want to explain ourselves to other human beings.”
—Maya Angelou
“The only way you can write the truth is to assume that what you set down will never be read. Not by any other person, and not even yourself at some later date. Otherwise you will begin excusing yourself. You must see the writing as emerging like a long scroll of ink from the index finger of your right hand; you must see your left hand erasing it.”
—Margaret Atwood
Jeffrey Reads — reading just one more chapter since the crib 